Including a Handfasting in your Wedding

What is Handfasting?

Handfasting is of ancient Celtic origin and dates back to 7000 BC. Handfasting is a ceremony where the couple hold hands and two or more handfasting ribbons or handfasting cords are then gently bound around them while meaningful words or promises are spoken, before the ribbons or cords are tied into a knot.  It’s thought that back in ancient Celtic tradition the handfasting ceremony was actually part of announcing a couple’s betrothal or intention to marry. Essentially it was the start of their engagement.  Handfasting is sometimes called a hand tying ceremony.

Nowadays, you’ll more often see a handfasting take place during a humanist, celebrant-led wedding ceremony. Let’s look deeper into what a handfasting is, how it works and how you could include a handfasting in your bespoke Humanist wedding ceremony.

What does a Handfasting symbolise?

There’s lovely symbolism in handfasting, much of which can still feel relevant to modern couples. The joining of hands symbolises the couple are coming together of their own free will. The ribbons symbolise the different individuals and families joining together,  the knot symbolises a new family created, while still showing the individuals within, this is where the phrase ‘Tied the Knot’ came from! Of course there is also the nod to Celtic tradition. 

Your wedding celebrant can write some meaningful wording to be said during the handfasting, or you might choose to say your vows or promises at the same time. Your celebrant can help you decide.

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