Meaningful ceremonies, crafted for modern couples
A personal, unique ceremony, created to be less of ‘the usual’ and a whole lot more you!
Photo by Anna Pumer Photography
You know you don’t want your wedding ceremony to be the same old, same old…
You know you want a wedding ceremony that’s personal and unique, not just the same old template with your names (often incorrectly) inserted here and there.
You know you want a relaxed wedding ceremony, perfectly reflecting you. A wedding ceremony that sets the tone for the celebration and your marriage, instead of being relegated to just the ‘bit you have to get through’.
You know you want an inclusive wedding ceremony that’s joyful, meaningful and fun, not one that makes you feel like the proverbial square peg when you deserve to feel fabulous.
A relaxed, heartfelt wedding ceremony, created especially for you.
Imagine a wedding ceremony that fits you both perfectly, because it’s been crafted and curated exclusively for you.
Imagine a wedding ceremony where every word, every action and every moment has been included with intention, with no elements that feel outdated, uncomfortable or irrelevant, just there because you feel you ‘should’.
Imagine a wedding ceremony that doesn’t feel like a chore, but instead a warm, meaningful, wholehearted celebration.
Imagine a wedding ceremony that you’re just as – if not more – excited about than the party that follows!
This is all possible with a celebrant wedding ceremony.
I specialise in creating warm, joyful, modern civil partnership and wedding ceremonies for couples who want to start their marriage or civil partnership in a way that’s much more considered, meaningful, and enjoyable than just another template ceremony.
I craft, curate, write and lead your unique wedding ceremony, from your initial enquiry to the celebratory burst of confetti. I make sure that you can have a wedding ceremony that’s less of ‘the usual’, and a whole lot more YOU.
Naomi & Vicky - South West London
“Everyone's been raving about how beautiful and unique the ceremony was. And we've had several guests tell us it's the first time they haven't zoned out during a ceremony (high praise! 😂). Thank you so much for making it so special and meaningful for us.”
Dennis & Katie - West London
“The ceremony was so warm and romantic. You're like a close friend, with the calm confidence to bring everyone together!"
You’ve likely invested time in planning a wedding that is completely personal to you both. Why not start the celebrations with a civil partnership or wedding ceremony that is just as meaningful and modern as the rest of your day.
My fee for your unique, personalised wedding ceremony is £1,100.
As your celebrant, I include everything below to make sure your unique ceremony is totally feel-good and fabulous!
Before your big day:
A no-obligation ‘connection call’ before booking, so we can double-check we’re a good fit for each other.
My collection of wedding planning resources and ideas, a great way to start thinking about your personal ceremony.
A couple’s wed-meet, where we chat all about you, your story and how you want your wedding ceremony to feel, so I can get writing!
I’m available throughout your wedding planning to answer questions, bounce ideas around and advise on amazing wedding suppliers that are hugely talented and reflect real diversity.
An individually-crafted, lovingly-created ceremony script, written by me, but completely, uniquely, yours.
A ‘You’re getting married!’ call, to re-confirm everything and top up that cheerleading, moral support!
Plus, if you want to write your own vows, I can support with vow writing too.
On your Big Day:
I’m exclusively yours - I only book one civil partnership or wedding ceremony per weekend, I’m totally focused on you!
I’ll lead your unique civil partnership or wedding ceremony, filled with warmth & joy.
All Travel within London, and into Kent, Sussex & Surrey.*
Full public liability and professional indemnity insurance and quality assurance via Humanists UK.
*If the expected journey time to your ceremony is two & a half hours or more, I’ll need to include accommodation locally the night before. I’ll always chat to you first though.
After the big day:
Post big day …Post! A keepsake copy of your civil partnership or wedding ceremony script for you to look back on, plus a couple of little extra mementos. Who doesn’t like receiving post?
I donate 5% of every booking fee to a charitable cause that aligns with my values. Currently, Bromley & Croydon Women’s Aid.
When you choose a Humanist Wedding Ceremony, you…
Have a truly personalised wedding ceremony that reflects and celebrates the real you.
Can celebrate your wedding absolutely ANYWHERE you like!
Can involve little ones, loved ones, and fur-babies as much or as little(!) as you want!
Can include symbolic moments and rituals to reflect you both.
Know that as your wedding celebrant, I always have your back.
Avoid wedding conveyor belts, I’m focused purely on your wedding.
What happens when you book me to craft, create and lead your wedding ceremony?
Five steps to your fabulous wedding ceremony
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Finding a wedding celebrant is a really personal choice. Before you book, let’s catch up for a chat about your wedding planning (usually, this will be over Zoom). We’ll have a proper chat to get to know each other, talk about your wedding plans so far, and what you both want from your wedding ceremony. You’ll also get an insight into what it’s like to work with me and I can answer any questions.
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If you decide that I’m the wedding celebrant for you (yay!!) I'll send some Terms & Conditions, so we have a written agreement. I’ll also take a deposit to secure us both. I’m a serial monogamist, I only book one wedding per day, so once we confirm the date, I’m all yours!
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Next, we’ll have a couple’s wed-meet, where I really get to know you both. I’ll get the key facts sorted, then we can focus on your love story, what made you both want to say I do, as well as more detail on what you want from the day.
From vows and promises to rituals and ring-bearers, I’ll guide you to make sure your wedding feels exactly that…Yours! Whether you know exactly what you want or you’re struggling with where to begin, I can suggest readings, poems or symbolic actions to bring your wedding to life (and if that’s already making you cringe, I’ll create something pared back and beautifully simple.) -
I’ll then craft and curate your unique wedding ceremony, weaving in warmth, joy and a sprinkling of humour. It will feel authentic to you both, flowing between storytelling & symbolism and brimming with celebration. I always aim for feel-good & fabulous on the first attempt, but I’m committed to it being the perfect fit. So if you need it nipped or tucked let me know...I’ll make sure it’s just right in time for your big day!
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On the day, I’ll be at your wedding venue early to make sure we’re all set. I’ll check in with photographers, venue staff, musicians and readers. I’ll also be there to reassure you both. Then, I’ll host your unique, feel-good ceremony, kicking off your fabulous day and your fabulous marriage!
So, you love the thought of a civil partnership or wedding ceremony crafted especially for you, but you still have some questions about how it all works….
We’re not religious but some of our family are, will you make sure they feel comfortable?
Absolutely! it’s my job to make sure that everyone feels welcome! A Humanist ceremony is non-religious in nature but welcoming to all. Humanism is just about being guided by compassion and reason, thinking for yourself, yet acting for others. Whether your guests follow a faith, or not, they’ll be equally welcome and valued.
Do you lead ceremonies for couples from LGBTQIA+ Communities?
Yes!! I celebrate love in all its glories and actively stand up with and for lovers from the LGBTQIA+ community. I’m delighted to officiate at weddings of people of any sex or gender in any combination!
Is a humanist wedding legally recognised?
At the moment, humanist weddings are sadly not legally recognised in England or Wales. They’ve been recognised in Scotland since 2005 and are now legally recognised in Jersey and Northern Ireland. Don’t despair! You can still have a feel-good, fabulous personalised wedding! I can advise on how you can obtain a statutory legal registration from your local register office for usually around £50. You say all the legally required words, but you don’t have to include any of the ‘wedding-y’ bits unless you want to. You can do this in the days, weeks or even months running up to your ceremony with me, or even on the day itself. I’m happy to help you figure out the right plan for you.
Want to know more about Humanism and humanist weddings?
Can we involve our pets in our civil partnership or wedding ceremony?
Errrr…Yes, please! If you're anything like me you'll definitely consider your pets to be absolutely part of your family. and as such, you might want to involve them in your wedding ceremony - if they’ll let you!
I can help you think about different ways that you could do this. It's really important to think about your pet's personality and how they're going to feel happy, safe and secure.
Here are just a few ideas… Walkies down the aisle, a paw-fect ring bearer, furry company in the wedding ceremony space, or, if they can’t be there in paw-son, why not at least have them mentioned in your ceremony…
We need to think about disabled access & inclusion for our ceremony, can you help?
100%! I create civil partnership and wedding ceremonies that are inclusive for all couples and all people. I know from personal experience that the ‘average wedding’ often poses challenges or barriers for some people, making them feel ‘less than fabulous’ or even downright excluded. With 15 years of professional experience in inclusive participation and a lifetime of understanding, I will make sure that your ceremony is accessible to everyone involved.
What areas do you cover for wedding and civil partnership ceremonies?
I mainly lead ceremonies across London and the South of England. This helps me to use public transport as a way of keeping my business as sustainable as I can. However - I’m always up for trying a new train line or even better a bus! So, If you're further afield or planning an overseas civil partnership or wedding ceremony drop me a line, I’m always very happy to travel if I can!
“Kathryn made everything about our wedding ceremony so special and unique to us... The ceremony was a magical moment!”
-J & T, South East London
Start your day with a bespoke, modern civil partnership or wedding ceremony, setting the tone for the rest of your celebration and your lives together.
There’s nothing more feel-good and fabulous than celebrating your love in a civil partnership or wedding ceremony that’s unique to you, in a place that feels absolutely right, supported by everyone that matters, let’s make it happen. I cannot wait to work with you as your wedding celebrant and to make your unique, relaxed ceremony a reality.
